As a spiritual evolutionary, I was determined to find my way through the confusion. The essence of what I discovered is that this isn’t the time to pretend that our sex is bad or isn’t there. It’s no time to be guilty about something that is so beautiful.
The sex god – No Mud No Lotus is a thorough and sacred investigation into sex, love and authenticity. It’s a sexually explicit and passionate love story that follows one man’s evolution towards spiritual freedom. The story is told through his many erotic encounters. We follow him from innocence into sexual cockiness, painful infidelities, porn addiction and then onwards into deepest Tantric Love.
The book explores sex, infidelity, Tantra, sex addiction, pornography, sexual healing, sacred sexuality and eco sexuality in great depth.
The sexual urge – what happens when it’s repressed; the root of sex-addiction and the way out of it.
Sexual Desire – the Biology and the Ecstasy
Sexual desire, as we all know, is a natural biological urge, which may or may not lead to masturbation or sexual intercourse, and this in turn, may or may not lead to genital release, also known as Orgasm. The orgasm reflex is an automatic aspect of the nervous system. It is pre-programmed into the human body to need genital release on a regular basis, the frequency of which depends on the age and health of the person.
For most people, genital release is extremely pleasurable. It floods the body with pleasure hormones bringing a sense of euphoria and joy. For a moment, mind stops, the sense of time disappears and we are offered a glimpse of heaven. This state of pure joy is a door offered by nature, allowing us to experience life in wholeness and totality. Often, in these moments of ecstasy, we know beyond a shadow of a doubt, that life is simply love.
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She had been betrayed by the ancient contract whereby a woman gives sex so that she wont be abandoned. She had tolerated “good as it gets” in the hope of getting some love and security.
Anything in life can be erotic – everything in life is erotic. Even right now Reader… perhaps with the bubbles in your beer, the unfurling buds on a great oak tree or with the warmth of your hairy butt on the chair.